Tuesday, August 22, 2006

Ahhh...the good ol' days

This has been going around as an e-mail forward for quite some time, but thought it would be something to blog - since I'm dry in that department lately. It's an arcticle that was published in Good Housekeeping, May 1955.

For those who are married or demostically partnered, take heed, these are words to live by:

The Good Wife's Guide

- Have dinner ready, Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready, on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and the prospect of a good meal (especially his favourite dish) is part of the warm welcome needed.

- Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you'll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people.

- Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.

- Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives.

- Gather up schoolbooks, toys, paper etc. and then run a dustcloth over the tables.

- Over the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering for his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.

- Prepare the children. Take a few minutes to wash the children's hands and faces (if they are small), comb their hair and, if necessary, change their clothes. They are little treasures and he would like to see them playing the part. Minimise all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer or vacuum. Try to encourage the children to be quiet.

- Be happy to see him.

- Greet him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him.

- Listen to him. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first - remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours.

- Make the evening his. Never complain if he comes home late or goes out to dinner, or other places of entertainment without you. Instead, try to understand his world of strain and pressure and his very real need to be at home and relax.

- Your goal: Try to make sure your home is a place of peace, order and tranquility where your husband can renew himself in body and spirit.

- Don't greet him with complaints and problems.

- Don't complain if he's late home for dinner or even if he stays out all night. Count this as minor compared to what he might have gone through that day.

- Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or have him lie down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him.

- Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice.

- Don't ask him questions about his actions or question his judgment or integrity. Remember, he is the master of the house and as such will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question him.

- A good wife always knows her place.

My Mother, who got married in 1958 (at the tender age of almost 18), had this to say: "Boy, that is the way it was supposed to be! Can you imagine a 'modern' woman doing or thinking that today?! And now you know why some women ran away, drank, had affairs, and sometimes committed murder!!!! I did my best ---- !"

No wonder she was divorced in 1976!


  • (sigh) Those were the days.

    By Blogger VeryApeAZ, at 6:01 PM  

  • See this.

    By Blogger Moncrief Speaks, at 8:57 PM  

  • Moncrief Speaks, I don't really care if this Good Housekeeping article was "fabricated" or not - or what the author of your link feels our interest in the 1955 article says of society today. The truth (and fact) of the whole matter is that my Mother really was a wife/mother of the 1950s and says, "Yes, that is how we were expected to be..." I think her opinion weighs a lot more than the the author of that link. A link you just had to point me to in some sort of vain effort to prove a stranger "wrong" somehow. Get a life. The point of the blog post was to say "remember when this was expected?" I don't give a rat's ass if the alleged source was listed as LIFE, Good Housekeeping or Betty Crocker's's just a stupid piece of nostalgia to think about...

    By Blogger Kiddo78, at 10:50 AM  

  • who peed in your cheerios kiddo78?

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at 8:21 PM  

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